Showing posts with label A Beautiful Mess. Show all posts
Showing posts with label A Beautiful Mess. Show all posts

Friday, February 27, 2015

The Reward of Sticking to (Financial) Goals

I've written a lot about reasonable goal setting. Whether a goal is large or small, however, it's important not be distracted or tempted away from what you want/hope/need to accomplish.

Coming to the close of the February Challenge, it is this week I've found myself desiring to shop for, well, anything. I don't know why it's been so particularly difficult this last week, but quite a few times, I was tempted to cave. Still, I've not been to shop in any store but a supermarket since the end of January! And it's been quite an eye-opening experience; I even managed to completely makeover a corner of my den into my dream home office, without spending a penny!


With my freelance work increasing (hooray!), an organized place to work has been necessary for a while now. After seeing Kara Haupt's beautiful - and yaaaay, small - space featured on A Beautiful Mess, I was inspired and with two ice-days at home, got the job done, all with materials and items I already owned! I'll write more about the rewards of the February Challenge in a coming post, because while this was a small goal, it was a fun experiment, sometimes difficult to stick by, and I learned a lot about my shopping habits.

It can be  a much harder challenge, however, to stick by a larger goal that will take longer to accomplish. Just this week, I had to make a decision concerning some additional funds I came into. In December, I'd made a financial plan and set a goal to be accomplished within a three-year time frame. This plan also included what to do with any and all additional funds, large or small.

I can be very in-the-moment when it comes to extra funds and it was easy to imagine mini-breaks, vacations, new shoes, and so many other possibilities. I like to think I'm being all zen-like and enlightened and living-for-the-moment when I use extra money this way, but it's often just an impulsive choice that is fun at the time...and not necessarily in my best interests long-term. It's a tough line to walk, wanting to stick by a long-term plan but also living in-the-moment.

So...I did not do anything at all for an entire week...but yesterday I took a deep breath and allocated the majority of the funds to the proper place, completely in alignment with my personal financial goals and plan. I kept out only a small percentage for a bit of fun, and this choice felt great! This morning, I am happy that I resisted the temptation to spend the money and followed my plan instead! My will power was tested, but not giving in to temptation felt better than anything I could have purchased or any trip I might have taken could have felt!


Why yes, I do eat so much sushi that I have my own personal chopsticks!

Last night, in celebration, I rewarded myself with my favorite sushi and a bit of relaxing, altering a couple of dresses by hand while enjoying movie night with my son. The February Challenge and my own personal financial plan have made this a month of lessons and discipline, which I will discuss more in a coming post!



Happy Saturday All!

Amy

Thursday, February 5, 2015

What I'm Loving Right Now!

In honor of Valentine's Day, my favorite holiday next to Christmas, I'll be doing a few posts this months on things I am loving at the moment! First, our homemade Valentines! I did the painting and the boy applied the stickers and we're all set to send out some happy mail! And that big sequined heart in the center is destined for a special friend, but I fell in love with it so completely that I bought a 3 foot long garland of them for my den! Before The February Challenge, of course!


I'm also madly loving Ch-Ch-Ch-Chia Pudding. Oh my goodness, yes!


And A Beautiful Mess, the blog site which featured the recipe, is amazing. Pan Pan Studios totally wants to be A Beautiful Mess when she grows up. No doubt. Hop on over there and spend some time with Elsie and Emma. I am taking a course from them on how to brand and grow my blog soon, and I'm very excited about it!

And this may be inexcusably vain, but I'm also wildly in love with my hair!


I finally had the nerve to go as dramatic with it as I've always wanted to! Bold, thick strips of color...there may even be some new colors added to the mix in the future! If you've been holding of on doing something fun and funky with yours, remember - a good bag, good shoes, and cool hair means you can wear grimy sweats and still look pretty fly. And it's only hair, so go for it!

And although there is so little to get excited about during Southern winters, winter fashion is pretty fun, especially tights. And I have to say, I am loving my black-and-white heart ones!


Old Navy, of all places! I also scored beige tights with black hearts, black sparkly tights and black tights with red polka dots to go with my existing - and possibly excessive - collection of tights and leggings.

And those are a few things I'm loving at the moment, how about you? What are you loving during this month of hearts and candy and cupids and flowers?

Happy Thursday!

Amy